Self Sabotage: Behavior is said to be self-sabotaging when it creates problems and interferes with long-standing goals. The most common self-sabotaging behaviors are procrastination, self-medication with drugs or alcohol, comfort eating, and forms of self-injury such as cutting
Dear Guy Friend,
Here I am back again writing a letter to you. I honestly thought I was done playing around with you. Knowing that I am in my waiting season for my husband and the other things that God has for me, but I continue to by my time with you. You say the right things and I eat it all up. You make me feel good and I can imagine that my husband would treat me the way you do. It makes me feel like I am in this fantasy and then I snapback and remember, you are not mine to have. What in the world am I doing?! Its unfair to ME and its unfair to you and yours.
Why do I continue to do this to myself? Knowing what God has for me, and knowing what He has told me, its like self-sabotage. It's unhealthy the way our friendship has turned to and if the situation was in reverse, my heart would be heavy. I don't have much to say but you and I cannot be anymore and if we don't be friends anymore, its for the best.
Sincerely,
A determined woman
This season of singleness can be hard. The "Situationships" comes about and you just end up in a situation and no relationship. Going through the motions of a relationship but it hasn't been confirmed. I call it "snacks". When you hungry and the main course isn't ready for you just yet, you just munch on snacks to pass the time and dealing with the "Dear Guy Friends" in my life , I feel like that is what exactly I am doing. Just snacking and not even snacking on the good stuff while I'm waiting. It seems like a lonely rode but it's not. If you are in Christ you are NEVER alone. Allow this time to explore YOU, get to know you. Find the time to love yourself and set the standards so when he or she comes around, you will be at a good place not to fall into temptation. Be Faithful in your season and God will honor it.
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